I'm so sorry, babygirl, for what you're having to endure.
Those of us who are ill but have become inactive face similar. The heartless mantra, "If he dies before Armageddon, Jehovah may remember him in the resurrection," is a cop out for help and sympathy we need NOW!
Our alleged falling from favor with Jehovah (how do they know that?) disqualifies us from the basic help JWs could render. It ends up that we get care from "worldly" people.
I love those caring, helpful, sympathetic, hands-on "worldly" people!
Love and blessings, Dear One.
CoCo